Do you believe the Lord like to pleasantly surprise his children? I do.  Case in point some friends of ours invited us to a Newsboys concert in Monterey, California.  You may know Newsboys from their movie cover songs God’s Not Dead or Guilty. Sadly, we had to decline, because it just wasn’t in our budget.


Surprise #1 – Shortly thereafter we receive a call back from them offering to take us. Wow!


Surprise #2 – We arrived at the theater which was gorgeous and I noticed the sign stated Newsboys United and I thought to myself, What’s United?

Suprise #3 – Two of the original band members, Peter Furler and Phil Joel, who left 11 years ago join them on stage. Cool!


Suprise #4 – One of the lead singer, Michael Tate’s, old band member from DC Talk, Kevin Max, also joined on stage and sang a throwback song Jesus Freak. I used to listen to DC Talk back in the 90s. I never put two and two together. Very cool!

Surprise #5 – As we were exiting the theatre, we bumped into two our dear friends Ken and Shaunna.  It’s such a small world.

You may say to yourself, Coincidence.  Well, I believe God works through people to bless people and He provides divine appointments, not chance.

How have you seen the Lord surprise you?

Blessings, Rebecca



College Tuition & Funding

20190929_183217.jpgAs parents of a senior in high school, we are navigating our way through college planning.

Austin has gone on field trips to local colleges such as San Jose State University, Cabrillo, and UC Santa Cruz to determine if that’s where he’d like to study.

He also traveled out of the area for a summer camp and stayed on Westmont College campus in Santa Barbara.

In addition, he has searched for prospective colleges in the Pacific Northwest near his cousins.

And so begins his college application process.


Parallel to chosing where he’d like to go, we are researching college tuition and funding.

So far we have learned of four ways to pay for college.

1. Savings

One way of paying for college classes, dorm fees, food, books, etc. is to save up.

Not every family can afford to pay for a higher education out of pocket.

2. Student Loans

Another way to supplement college costs is to borrow money. There are institutions that will lend students money at low interest rates.

3. Financial Aid

Another way to help with payments is financial aid. The federal program is called FAFSA and the application process starts this week for students starting in the Fall of 2020.

4. Scholarships

Another way to help with costs is scholarships.  There are numerous organizations that offer money to students.

We began researching what’s available and learned there are varying amounts of money given away (i.e. $500, $1,000, $10,000, $25,000, etc.)

Each donor gives away based on a criteria such as being a student, living in a particular area, conducting a certain amount of volunteerism, grades, career choice, etc.

In order to obtain the funding, the student typically has to complete an application and/or essay.

We found it helpful to get a list of available scholarships from the school counseling office. Also, there are agencies out there who help you locate available funding. One such site is The Scholarship System. I watched their free webinar and learned how the owner was able to graduate debt free via scholarships. If you’d like in depth information, you must purchase their program.

Anyhow, we are investigating and discovering the right school and ways to fund it.

If you have gone through this process with your child(ren), I’d love to hear your advice.

Blessings, Rebecca

Budget Friendly Entertainment


This week I wanted to share with you 3 budget friendly ways for entertainment.

Our family is on a tight budget and we have to find economical ways to go out. Here are a few ways we save…


1. Free

One way we go out is to find free activities such hiking, walking, going to the beach, swim at our community pools, etc.

In our community, there are often free family activities such as Music In The Park, Movies On The Beach, etc. I am sure if you check your local paper you too could find free community gatherings.

Also, check out businesses to see if there are free days for county residents (i.e. Monterey Bay Aquarium, Seymour Lab, etc.)


2. Reduced Price

Another way we go out is finding reduced priced activities.  For instance, one of my co-workers sent out an email for employees to purchase Great America tickets for $10 each. They are regularly $39.99 each. Also, their parking fee is normally $25, however, if you purchase a pass on line in advance, it is only $20.

Locals discounts are a great way to save funds. Many businesses will offer discounted meals activities and free parking for locals on specific days/times. For instance, the Scotts Valley cinema has $5 movies all day on Tuesday.

Coupons are also a great way to find a deal. You can find them online or in the newspaper.


3. Sweepstakes

Another way we go out is we enter sweepstakes or contests that offer free tickets.

Two weeks ago, we went to Raging Waters for free, because I won four passes from Bay Area Parent. The tickets are normally $42.95 per person. In addition, I saw an online special they were running where you could buy a pass on line for just $29.99.

I thank the Lord that I have won tickets to such places as Santa Cruz Boardwalk, Roaring Camp, Raging Waters, and Santa Cruz County Fair, because every little bit helps.

These are just a few ways we find budget  friendly entertainment. I’d love to hear from you…

What are ways your family save money on entertainment?

Blessings, Rebecca



It had been several years since we went to a movie theater, because we have been disappointed with the lack of wholesome family movies in recent years. However, my co-worker told us about Overcomer. So, we decided to check it out.

It’s about high school basketball coach John Harrison and his team face an uncertain future when their town’s largest manufacturing plant shuts down unexpectedly. As hundreds of people move away, John reluctantly agrees to coach cross-country, a sport he doesn’t even like. His outlook soon changes when he meets Hannah Scott, an unlikely runner who pushes herself to the limit. Inspired by the words and prayers of a new friend, John starts to train Hannah for the biggest race of her young life.

The over arching theme to me was grace & reconcilliation.

It reminds me of God’s grace for us and His request for us to be gracious to others.

Here’s three ways to show grace to others:

1. Love – Love is an action that requires sacrafice whether it’s time, money, work, etc.

For instance, the community we live in loved on us during my recent  surgery recuperation by bringing us meals for six weeks.  That’s a long time.

I recently learned that a couple in our neighborhood had a baby and the mother’s c-section recovery is more difficult than anticipated.  Her friend set up a meal train for them. I signed up to donate a meal, because I want to reciprocate the love I received.

2. Forgive – Forgiveness pardons an offence. Recently my husband prayed for a lady in her 80’s whose knees were in chronic pain. Initially she didn’t see results. Randy asked her if there was anyone she needed to forgive and she confessed holding a grudge against her mother and siblings since childood. Once she freely forgave, they prayed again and the Lord healed her. Praise God for physical and emotional pain!

3. Compassion – Sympathizing with someone during their crises. My husband is a Chaplain. He has cunducted funerals where he has consoled the grieving family members and they appreciated a listening ear.

I highly recommend Overcomer. It was a heartwarming film about overcoming adversity. Warning: You may want to bring some tissue as it is a tear jerker.

How do you show or receive grace?

Blessings, Rebecca

Last Hoorah


Today is the first day of school. Austin starts his Senior year and Alicia kicks off her Sophmore year.

As a last hoorah, we attended Mount Hermon Community BBQ where we enjoyed a tasty hamburger with our neighbors.

Afterwards, we shot targets with wrist rockets.


Then, we hit targets with arrows at the archery station.

The boys played some table tennis while the girls put up their feet.

On Sunday, Randy grabbed us a mocha and we all attended Church on The Beach.


Later, the kids and I ran some errands getting last minute school supplies.  Austin drove us along West Cliff in Santa Cruz. We parked and walked into Natural Bridges State Beach where explored the tide pools.


As we wound down our day, we picked up groceries and headed home.

The summer sure seemed to fly by for us.

How was your summer break?

Blessings, Rebecca

Summer Fun


How is your summer going?

I cannot believe the kids are returning to school in about 2.5 weeks.

Since the last time I wrote, we have enjoyed some summer fun. How about you?


My brother Greg and sister-in-law Connie treated us to her company picnic at Six Flags Discovery Kingdom in Vallejo aka Marine World Africa USA. It had been probably 35 years since I went there. We enjoyed the rollercoaters, BBQ and dolphin show.


We stayed overnight in the neighboring town Fairfield and went to the Jelly Belly Factory.  We had wanted to check it out for years.

Have ever heard of their Bean Boozled? Well, my son purchased one their boxes. You think you are eating something nice like butter flavored popcorn jellybean, but it something yucky like dirty socks. So, he and his sister are trying the various flavors in the backseat of our car during the ride home. They give their dad the nastiest flavors and he doesn’t even flinch. Randy looks at me while I am driving and says, “Your turn Hon.” Before I can say,”No way!” he shoves a black jellybean in my mouth. To my chagrin, it turns out to be skunk smell. Gross! We all had a big laugh…


We rode a diesel train from Roaring Camp Railroad in Felton to Santa Cruz Boardwalk and back.


We hiked Mount Hermon trails.


We swam at Mount t Hermon and Mission Springs pools.



We enjoyed a delicious breakfast at Pancake Ridge.


We roasted some marshmallows for smores while participating in zumba and fieldhouse activities.



We attended Church on the Beach in Capitola and hung out at the ocean relaxing. Randy and I enjoyed yummy mochas while the kids ate hot pizza.


All in all, we’ve had a blast.

Feel free to share your summer fun with us.

Blessings, Rebecca



This weekend was all about rest. We have been on the go this summer with numerous activities; albeit fun.

How does your family rest?


#3 We watched an episode of Family Feud from 1973 on Youtube and the top 5 answers were:

#1. Sleep

#2. Listen to music

#3. Watch TV

#4. Hot bath or shower

#5. Massage

So, we thought we’d try these things to relax.

#1 Both Saturday and Sunday we all slept in. It felt so good to catch up on good old fashion sleep.


#2 My son and husband went to see Aaron Shust in concert at Mt Hermon and enjoyed a good concert. Afterwards, Austin met the artist.


#4 We enjoyed refreshing hot showers throughout the weekend.  I thank the Lord for modern conveniences.


#5 I asked Austin to massage my tight shoulders and they loosened up.


I trust you had a nice weekend too.

Blessings, Rebecca


Intentional Family Time


Back in January, I wrote about Family Time. This past week, we were intential about spending time as a family.

The kids enjoyed youth group at Mission Springs family camp. Their high school group went to the Boardwalk to ride some rollercoasters, attended a dance, hiked up to a lookout for fourth of July and celebrated our son, Austin’s, 17th birthday.


Randy and I had to work as we recently returned to work after my medical LOA. We participated in activities as time allowed such as meals, worship/speakers sessions, Frontier Ranch activities, 4th of July carnival/parade and their amazing buffet on the last day.

At the end of the week, we worked together on chores which freed us up to go for a hike at Henry Cowell Redwood State Park.

Next door to the park is Roaring Camp Railroad where you can enjoy a ride on either a steam or diesel train. One of my favorite sounds is the train whistle.


What do you do to intentionally set time aside to be with family?

Blessings, Rebecca




After about 4 weeks of recovering from a surgery, I felt comfortable enough to drive. Between that, walking and being able to cook, I was regaining some resemblance of normalcy.


After 6 weeks, I returned to work.  It felt so good to be back with my team and contributing to our community once again.

This past weekend, the kids and I helped my husband Randy plant flowers at his work in preparation for upcoming family camp.

I enjoyed being with my family, soaking up some sun and getting our hands dirty planting.

During this process, I have learned to lean on others and ask for help. It has been a humbling experience to say the least.


Have you had to rely on others for a period time? If so, I’d love to hear about it.

Blessings, Rebecca



I am approaching the last week of my Leave of Absence (LOA) and it has been a journey of regaining my strength after surgery on May 3.

On May 27, I requested you all to keep me in your prayers for a clean PET/CT scan. Have you ever taken a PET/CT scan? It is an intense body scan where they inject you with a radioactive isotope, strap your arms in place and lay you in a white tube (machine) that is approximately 2-3 inches from your nose. It scans yours body for radical cancer cells and takes about 20-30 minutes. I am usually a pretty calm, cool and collected person, however, I could feel my heart race and my breathing change during the test. I just kept praying and asking the Lord to help me through it. At one point, I wanted to rip the binding straps off and demand the technician to get me out of there. Yet, I took a deep breath and continued to pray. The next thing I know, the nurse told me I was all done. Thank God!

I have wonderful news to share. My PET/CT was all clear. All power, glory and praise be to God! Thank you for standing with us in prayer as this news spared me from 7.5 weeks of radiation and/or chemotherapy.

After 3.5 weeks of confined laying down, I am finally up and walking around outside for about a quarter of a mile. It feels so good to be out in the fresh air soaking up the sun.  Also, while meandering, I’ve been bumping into neighbors/co-worker and catching up. I even stop to smell the roses.


Randy returned to work after three weeks of helping me and I am able to drive again. I am back to picking the kids from school again. Although their last day was last Thursday, it is great to have the mobility restored.

Again, I want to say thank you to everyone who has prayed, supported, helped, made meals, donated sick days, called, sent cards, etc.  It means the world to us.

Have you ever had to rely on other people for support or ask for help? If so, I’d love to hear how it went.

Blessings,  Rebecca


PS This past Sunday, June 9, Randy and I celebrated 18 years of marriage. Whoda thunk we’d be on this journey nearly twenty years down the road, eh?