Spring Routine

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I was searching the web for other marriage and family blogs and came across Life Really. She shared her Fall Routine with her audience and it resignated with me; dropping off and picking up school aged kids. So, I thought I would share it with you.

As Spring approaches, I thought to myself, What is our routine? Here are a couple of things…

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1. Spring Cleaning

There is something true about the adage of Spring cleaning.  In fact, Spring still nine days away. Yet, I found myself deep cleaning our cabin this weekend and tossing a bunch of stuff.

My husband and I talked about joining the next local flea market to sell some items we no longer use to gain space. It feels good to me to have clean and organized place.

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2. Go Outside

Our family loves to explore our community.  We have awesome redwood forests and Pacific coast nearby. Here’s my daughter Alicia making wishes with dandelions in a field; simple pleasures.

We enjoy walking together places. Randy and I walked to town for a cup of coffee this past Sunday. Alicia and I walk around shopping and running errands. My son Austin and I like to hike local mountains and walk the creeks. All four of us walk the beaches and parks frequently. It will especially be nice this year, because we’ve received over 50 inches of rain.

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Do you have a seasonal routine you’d like to share with us?

Blessings, Rebecca

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Date

While our kids attendend high school camp at Lake Hume, my husband Randy and I decided to go on a date.

On Saturday, we got to sleept in. Ahhh, what a trea!

We then walked over to one of our local coffee shops, grabbed a couple of mochas and muffins.

As we savored our delicious drinks by the cozy fire, we thought of fun things to do for the day. We decided to head to Carmel.

We drove one hour south to explore the Monterey Bay Peninsula.

First stop was Pacific Grove. We drove along the scenic coast and noticed no cars parked along the cliffs. We later learned Warner Brothers was filming a movie and had reserved spaces. Pretty cool!

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Lovers Point

We decided to stop for lunch. So, we Googled restaurants near us only to discover a little hole in the wall clam chowder house that was delicious.

Afterwards, we walked down the street and popped in an antique shop.

We hopped back in the car and headed further south to Carmel.

We stopped at the main beach entrance and peered over the cliffs for a bit. I love the smell of fresh ocean air and watching the waves crash on the shore.

We wanted to see some new sights and  found a street called Scenic Road, parked and walked for about a mile along a coastal path. It was a gorgeous day.

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A peek at Pebble Beach Golf Course

We stopped half way, sat on a quaint park bench and soaked in the sun and surf.

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At the end of the day, we jumped back into our car and Randy noticed his phone was missing.  I called our phone carrier to find out how to locate his phone and possibly report a lost phone. After I hung up, we prayed and asked God to help us find it, because it has his chaplaincy contact info and personal photos.  We then called his phone and a gentleman named Alex answered and said he found it on the trail. A few minutes later, we met up with the European tourist and he returned Randy’s phone. We thanked him for his honesty and treated him to a coffee.

On the ride home, we reflected on how nice it was to hang out together, sight seeing and agreed we need to do it more often.

How about you? What dating ideas do you have? I’d love to hear about them.

Blessings, Rebecca

What Does The Bible Say About Family?

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Marriage and family are a key to a society’s structure. After asking myself last week “What does the Bible say about marriage,” I asked myself “What does the Bible say about family?” As I combed through the concordance, there are many references to family. I have selected a few to share with you.

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1. Honor

Moses gave the Israelites 10 Commandments from God. One of them is found in Exodus 20:12

Honor your father and mother, that your days may be prolonged in the land which the Lord your God gives you.

This particular verse is interesting, because it doesn’t say to love your parents. It says to honor or respect them. Not everyone grows up in a healthy family. So, some people may not love their father or mother, however, they are admonished to esteem their folks.

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2. Compassion

Just as a father has compassion on his children, So the Lord has compassion on those who fear Him. – Psalm 103:13

I believe this verse could be misconstrued that we must be afraid of God, however, when I think of the fear of the Lord, I think of it as having reverence for a holy God.

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3. Teach

We can teach a great deal to our future generations about the lessons we’ve learned.

Only give heed to yourself and keep your soul diligently, lest you forget the things which your eyes have seen, and lest they depart from your heart all the days of your life; but make them known to your sons and grandsons.  – Deuteronomy 4:9

These verses are just a few I discovered on family relationships.  I encourage you to search for ones that apply to your unique family dynamics.

What principles is your family built on? I would love to hear about them.

Blessings, Rebecca

What Does The Bible Say About Marriage?

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Marriage and family are a key to a society’s structure. So, I asked myself this weekend “What does the Bible say about marriage?” As I combed through the concordance, there is many references to marriage, husbands and wives. I have selected a few to share with you.

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1. Binding Contract

Marriage is a covenant between a husband and a wife.

Do not be bound together with unbelievers; for what partnership have righteousness and lawlessness, or what fellowship has light with darkness? – 2 Corinthians 6:14

This particular verse has meaning to me in that I wanted to marry a man with the same faith values as me, because I knew there could be disagreements about such things as going to church, reading the Bible, prayer, etc.; especially when it came to raising our children.

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2. Purity

Faithfulness to one another is key.

Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the marriage bed be undefiled; for fornicators and adulterers God will judge. – Hebrews 13:4

I understand this verse can be countercultural if you watch various films and television programs where partners live together before marriage, spouses cheat on one another, etc. However, I believe God is protecting the sanctity of marriages as it is a holy union between husband and wife.

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3. Blessing or Curse

As wives, we can either be a blessing or a curse to our husbands.

An excellent wife is the crown of her husband, But she who shames him is as rottenness in his bones. – Ephesians 12:4

I look back on a time when a friend shamed my husband in front of me and the kids. I remember how awful he felt. Unfortunately, we had to end that unhealthy friendship, because we understand the importance of wholesome relationships.

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4. Respect

It’s important to respect one another and our marital positions.

Wives, be subject to your own husbands, as to the Lord. – Ephesians 5:22

I know this verse is not very popular in our American culture today; especially with the feminist movement.  However, God is a God of order and He is above all and places the husband as head of the household.

Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the church and gave Himself up for her; – Ephesians 5:25

In addition to the huge responsibility of being head of his family, a husband is given the duty to love his wife sacraficially.

Frankly, I appreciate this covering from my husband. Now, is it always easy to submit, “No.” I grew up very independent, career driven and didn’t marry until 35 years of age. So, I am learning what that looks like.  As a result, I believe God has blessed our marriage of 17 years.

These verses are just a few I discovered on marriage.  There are many more in the Bible. I encourage you to seek for yourself.

What principles is your marriage built on? I would love to hear about them.

Blessings, Rebecca

Mother and Daughter

Alicia and I attended our third annual Mother and Daughter conference at Mission Springs. 

Although it rained cats and dogs, we enjoyed quality time together.

We attended a DIY bath bomb class.

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During a break in the storm, we took a hike.

We decorated journals with friends.

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The meals were delicious.  We especially enjoyed Sunday brunch with quiche, cheese/meat tray, tator tots, salad and donuts. There was something yummy for everyone.

We walked up the hill to enjoy outdoor activities such as ax/knife throwing, archery, petting zoo, etc.

All in all, it was a very nice girl time. If you haven’t tried a parent/child camp, I highly recommend it.

How was your weekend?

Blessings, Rebecca

Community

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Crrraaaack, snap…boom! My son and I looked at each other on the couch, because we knew a tree had just fallen.

I jumped up, put my rain boots and ran outside. I walked up and down our street, but didn’t see anything.

A few minutes later, we heard sirens. So, Austin threw on his sneakers to see what all the commotion was about. He discovered our neighbor two blocks away had a 100′ douglas fir tree fall on it.

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I turned on Fire Dispatch scanner and heard the local fire department requesting dispatch to notify American Red Cross the house is uninhabitable due to a large hole in it.

I turned on my work radio and heard coworkers helping the family evacuate to a safe place, because they were also downed high voltage lines sparking nearby. Thank the Lord no one was hurt.

We later learned that the family was offered a Mount Hermon cabin, another neighbor’s house across the street or lodging through American Red Cross.

I love our community! It’s awesome to see folks come together to help one another during tough times and celebrate life together.

Last year, I wrote about a fire behind our house. So many folks have helped the three families who lost their homes by offering them places to stay, meals and support through rebuilding.

Earlier this week, a co-worker went around collecting money to help two struggling families with rent and food.

Another co-worker picks up food donations every Thursday from a local church and places it on a bench outside an office the anyone to take from.

Also, a resident emailed me a Meal Train calendar to share with our community for a couple who just had a baby.

In December, I shared how how we were blessed by friends and co-workers with a mountain cabin for a week at Christmas.

In the past couple of months, we’ve hosted baby showers for expectant parents blessing them with necessary items for their little ones.

In April, we will celebrate a co-worker’s wedding.

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Again, I absolutely love our community! I feel blessed to be a part of it. We care for one another, reach out and get involved.

And He said to him, “You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, and with all your soul, with all your strength, and with all your mind; and your neighbor as yourself.” – Luke 10:27

Do you live in an amazing community as well? If so, I would love to hear about. Please share with us.

Blessings, Rebecca

Leash

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Train up a child in the way he should go, even when he is old, he will not depart from it. – Proverbs 22:6

This week I was reflecting on my teenage children and thinking to myself it’s difficult to determine how how much leash to let out and when to do so.

On the one hand, I’d like to hold their little hands forever.  On the other hand, I know I must let go gradually so they become strong adults.

It is a very challenging step in my life. So, I practiced letting go just a little bit this weekend.

Friday night was their high school winter dance. I dropped Alicia off two hours early to help set up the hall.

Austin was invited to a friend’s house for dinner beforehand. So, I dropped him off.

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Randy picked up both of them up safe and sound at 10pm. Phew! That wasn’t so bad.

The next day, Austin got invited to attend a dance and etiquette class about 20 miles away. Afterwards, they went to a friend’s house for snacks and hangout.  I picked him up at 10pm. Hmm, not bad. I think I can do this.

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On Sunday, Alicia received a call from a friend who moved to a different school who wanted to catch up. Normally, I would escort my daughter everywhere she goes. However, I thought I would let the two of them walk around the beach area while I rested on a bench near the water.

An hour and a half later, they showed up happy as clams.  Gulp. I guess while my kids are growing, so am I.

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Have your children transitioned from little ones to young adults? If so, how did you handle it?

Blessings, Rebecca

MLK Day

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Today our nation remebered Reverend Martin Luther King, Jr. for his civil rights activism from 1954 to 1968.

“Darkness cannot drive out darkness; only light can do that. Hate cannot drive out hate; only love can do that.” – MLK

Our President and Vice President made an unexpected visited to the MLK memorial statue.

Also, President Trump sent out this proclamation.

Thank you Dr. King for your sacrificial life’s work.

What did you do on this day?

Blessings, Rebecca

Birthdays

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We celebrated my sister-in-law’s 50th birthday and my brother’s upcoming birthday this weekend.

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Her celebration comes shortly after the Christmas where we celebrated the birth of our savior.

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Last October, we celebrated my dad’s 80th birthday.  That’s a big one!

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Truth be told though, birthdays have always been a bit awkward for me.  Since they are a gift from God, I am learning to embrace them.

How do you and yours celebrate birthdays?

Blessings, Rebecca

New Year & New Findings

As we enter 2019, I would like to wish you a very Happy New Year.

Behold I will do something new. Now it will spring forth. Will you not be aware of it? I will even make a roadway in the wilderness, rivers in the desert.

-Isaiah 42:19

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Beach

On the first of January, we had the day off so our family took a drive up the coast to a new site.

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We grabbed a mocha at a new coffee shop for us: The Verve and headed to Shark Fin Cove.  It is a quaint cove with gorgeous coarse, cream colored sand with a rock formation shaped like a shark fin protruding from the sea.

20190101_115449Afterwards, we jumped in our car and drove two miles north and peaked over the bluffs at beautiful Davenport beach.

We bumped into our friends Bill and Linda who were also enjoying the warm Fall day and caught up on each other’s lives.

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Restaurants

The same two friends gave us a generous gift card for Christmas with one stipulation; we were invited to go on a triple date night at Crow’s Nest. It was a great night of food, fun and fellowship. It was a first in 20 years.

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We received another Christmas gift card from other friends to a brand new restaurant in Capitola.

We headed over for an early dinner and then attended a Saturday night church service. We enjoyed the endless breadsticks, soup, salad and delicious pasta!

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Exercise

My daughter invited me to join her exercising via a YouTube video. I had never done pilates before and rather enjoyed building core strength.

What did you do for New Year’s?

Blessings, Rebecca