Spontaneous Shopping and Dining


My daughter asked me if we could go shopping over the hill, because she received gift cards for her birthday.

We went to Westfield Valley Fair in San Jose where she shopped at her favorite store Forever 21. She found a new shirt and sweatshirt.

Next, she checked out Hollister and bought a cute shirt.

We headed over to Old Navy where my son found an athlete shirt and used one of his gift cards.

Austin wanted to window shop downstairs where the high end stores are located. We saw Tiffany & Company, Cartier, Prada, Coach, Luis Vuitton, Saint Laurent and a couple of stores we had never heard of Balenciaga and Tadashi Shoji.

As we strolled along, the door guards and robotic security guard greeted us.

We crossed the street to shop at Santana Row so Alicia could use her H&M gift card. I chuckled to myself as we arrived in our 1999 Toyota Camry we lovingly named, “Betsy.” I parked near a Lamborghini,  McLaren and Audi R8 Etron.

She found an adorable purse and I found a comfy sweatshirt.

On our way out, the kids popped into Gucci. Some of their classmates wear sporty designer sneakers, and they wanted to check them out.


Our stomachs started rumbling. So, we headed over to In and Out burgers. It’s a treat to eat there, because we don’t have them in Santa Cruz.

We hopped in Betsy and headed to DSW Shoes to find sneakers for Austin. We had never shopped there before. Alicia tried on high heels for the first time.

Austin asked if we could go to Dick’s Sporting Goods. We drove 5 miles to Sunnyvale.  He found a cool pair of Addidas shoes.

Exhausted,  I drove 60 miles back home and rested for the night.

Randy conducted an eulogy recently for a friend/fellow firefighter, and his widow blessed us with a gift card to the Chaminade Resort.

We enjoyed their Sunday brunch featuring omlet, waffle and prime rib stations. There were salads, fruit, stuffed chicken, stir fried vegetables, potatoes, bacon/sausage, homemade breads and crepes. Our delicious meal was topped off by decadent desserts such as dark forest cake, homemade brownies/cookies, cheesecake,  ice cream and chocolate fondue.

It was an unique weekend for sure. We thank the Lord for extravagant blessings.

Have you ever stepped out of your comfort zone and tried something new? I’d love to hear about it?

Blessings, Rebecca

Guest Blog by Linda Joann Kay

I first met Linda  when my children attended AWANA (Approved Workmen Are Not Ashamed ),at one of our local churches. She is a wonderful lady who is involved in many aspects of our community. This week, I asked her to share her insight on working with children, and she will tell you all about a fantastic organization. Both my kids enjoy participating every year, and it is very rewarding! Please welcome Linda Joann Kay!
Blessings,  Rebecca
As parents we want the best for our children. We enjoy not only meeting our children’s needs but giving them special things, as well. However, many of us as parents are concerned when we start seeing our children respond with an attitude of entitlement – “I deserve ______________”, “All my friends have __________”, while at the same time they lose their sense of gratitude. The expectations get bigger and bigger and yet their joy and appreciation becomes less and less. What is a parent to do?

I would suggest that one of the best ways to change a child’s perspective is to take them on a missions trip to Mexico or Haiti, to see children who live without all the luxuries and who appreciate the most simple gifts. However, this can be expensive and there are a lot of unpredictable variables – weather, sickness, transportation – to name a few.

But there is an effective and affordable way to change your child’s perspective, not only on consumerism but in realizing they can make a significant difference in another child’s life through Operation Christmas Child (OCC) a ministry of Samaritan’s Purse. OCC encourages people to give the simple gift of a shoebox stuffed with school supplies, toiletries, toys and candy for a boy or a girl between the ages of 2 and 14. Operation Christmas Child has distributed more than 200,000,000 shoe boxes to children in over 100 war-torn, impoverished and/or natural disaster hit countries over the last 22 years, bringing the message of love, hope and joy not only with the gifts but in sharing the Good News of Jesus Christ.


The cool thing is that your children can be involved from a very early age. Let me suggest a few ways to make this happen in your home. First, watch a video about OCC with your child. There are many to choose from but you may want to start with this video that gives you a great overview of the ministry of OCC. Once you see this video, you and your child will be hooked! It’s exciting to see how much joy we can bring to another child! You may want to watch some of the other videos right then but you may want to come back and watch a video once a week. Then have your child decide if they want to pack their box for a boy or a girl. Next, pick an age group, 2 – 4 year old, 5 – 9 year old, or 10 – 14 year old. Often children want to pick someone of the same gender and age making it easier to think what that child might enjoy.

Then go shopping! Often you will find that your child will be very generous and will want to buy quite a bit for the child they have in mind. Sometimes it’s a good idea to take a shoebox along so your child realizes the restraints of space, or you could decide to pack more than one box. As you shop you can educate your child on the importance of things that they take for granted – soap, toothpaste, a comb – and point out that not all children have even these basic things.

When you pack your box encourage your child to write a letter to the child receiving the box and include a picture. Children who receive the boxes treasure these personal touches. Then include a check for $7 to cover the shipping – much cheaper than a missions trip! Or you can pay on line and get a tracking label so you know in which country your box is distributed.

Relay Centers are open the third week of November to receive your box. You can check on the OCC website to find a Relay Center near you.


But if you don’t want to wait until November you can Build A Box on line. Again, your child gets to pick the age and gender of the child. Then they are given a choice of gifts to put in the box. With each choice they get a short story how a similar gift impacted a child’s life, and expanding their understanding of others and an appreciation for the life with which they’ve been blessed. The total cost for a Build A Box is $25 – again, much cheaper than a missions trip. Many of these boxes are delivered to “sensitive countries” where the Good News of Jesus Christ isn’t often heard.

An OCC distribution at a muslim school.

An OCC distribution at a muslim school.

I encourage you and your child to pray. Pray as you choose to pack a box. Pray as you shop. Pray as you pack. Pray as you drop it off. And then pray some more. Imagine what life might be for the child on the receiving end. Picture each item packed and pray that it will bring the child joy. If you find out in which country your box was delivered, learn about that country and pray some more.

One word on unrealistic expectations: you may hear back from your child, but probably not. If they have a piece of paper it will be used for school. They may not know how to write. They may not have access to a post office. Suffice it to know that your box has brought great joy into a child’s life.
An Operation Christmas Child shoebox doesn’t only change the life of the child receiving the box but it changes the heart of the one who sends it as well.

Linda Kay is the Area Director for Operation Christmas Child in Santa Cruz, CA. She is the mother of four children and grandmother to two. She met her husband, Randal, doing children’s ministry at Mount Hermon Christian Conference Center and they have been involved in ministry together ever since. You can contact Linda by email,